
The mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law to finish lunch at her parents' house in the second grade before going back to her parents' house. Otherwise, the time to stay at her mother-in-law's house is too short, is it reasonable?
My daughter-in-law was asked to stay at my mother-in-law's house for a long time after the New Year. When I returned to my mother's house on the second day of the New Year, I was stuck during the annual leave. Many mother-in-law's houses would not go back or go back later, but they had to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be inclined to be incA daughter-in-law posted a message on the Dcard family version. She said that because her husband's grandparents' grandparents' family members were dead, she would accompany her mother-in-law to go back to her grandfather's hometown every year during the New Year. As usual, she would go back on New Year's Eve and go back to her parents' home early in the second day of the lunar month. But this year, my mother-in-law specially told her husband that she could stay at her mother-in-law's house for a long time during the Chinese New Year, and at least go back after lunch. Even if her husband clearly told her to go back to her parents-in-law's house for lunch, my mother-in-law still insisted, "I even used emotional blackmail to express her dissatisfaction with her!" Finally, she even made a ruthless voice: "It's so short that you want to go back, so don't go back."
Afterwards, my husband had to come and ask my wife: "Can you go back later?" After hearing this, she agreed to answer: "I'm going back to my parents' home. If you don't go back, I can go back by myself. Isn't it okay to have your surname?" But my husband still asked her to make peace, "Just just to make everyone harmonious."
Later, my husband even moved out: "Mother-in-law said yes!" The original PO replied directly "My mother said yes, but I can't!" She thought that although the mother of her parents didn't mind, she was very concerned about whether she had returned to her parents' home at noon in the second day of the lunar month. "Because when she went back to her parents' home, it was really every woman who was loved and was embarrassed at her husband's house." But her husband could not understand her mood at all, so she emphasized, "He thought he could do it, he was being put in the middle."
The famous daughter-in-law said, "Everyone has their own difficulties. I am very traditional to me. Going back to my parents' home on the second day of the first day is my bottom line. If I step on it, I can't stand it." Just like the traditional way to ask my daughter-in-law to abide by the New Year's Eve and the first day of the first day of the first day of the first day of the first day of the first day of the first day, but when I go back to my parents' home on the second day of the first day of the first day, I often have to get along with my daughter-in-law. Is it difficult to say that the traditional way is that the married woman has no right to go back to her home for the New Year?
Many netizens also named their husbands to help their wife. One netizen said: "Sir, I think you are a pig teammate. Isn't it really a kind of harmony that you have changed to? Is it? Since you have agreed, how can he be trapped? "Of course your husband can do it. He wants to enjoy more time at his own home or go to his wife's house to serve as a dear seat. The problem is that you will be very tired. Does he have empathy?"
A netizen quarreled with his mother-in-law during the New Year's New Year. Because she only gave birth to one daughter and didn't plan to have another child, her mother-in-law told her that she didn't have to go back last year, so she obediently heard that she had never returned to her mother-in-law for the New Year. "Last year I took my family to Japan to play. I planned to go to Huadong for 5 days and 4 nights this year. The funny thing is that my husband took his child back alone last year, which probably made him so tired that he was scared. So this year my husband said he wanted to follow him." Many netizens responded after seeing it: "Then please respond to my mother-in-law's opinion. If you don't go back this year~"
Family members will respect and plan bound lines so that they can be truly harmonious and not go home for the New Year directly, which may cause serious harm to the two families in the future. The most important thing is that they must respect each other and face unreasonable requirements. Even if they are strong and close, they must plan bound lines.A netizen said that in the first year of her marriage, her mother-in-law asked, "Do you want to go back to my parents' house for lunch in the second day of the year, and then go back to your parents' house?" At that time, her husband refused directly. For four years, the mother-in-law would ask once every year during the New Year, and also told her husband, "Uncles said that I haven't seen you for a long time, so go back to have a meal." But her husband supported him, and he said, "My father used to be on the night of the New Year's Day. It doesn't matter if my mother goes back to her parents' home. Now I'm going to stay." The netizen said, "I don't understand why my mother-in-law can go back to her parents' home on the night of the first day of the New Year. After becoming a mother-in-law, she insists on accompanying her to her parents' home. Her daughter-in-law is also someone else's daughter."
Refuse family extortion and must step on her own bottom line, otherwise anyone will think that her daughter-in-law can ask for it without restrictions.