A monthly salary of 70,000 yuan is not afraid to marry and have children. The eighth-year-old daughter "rights are robbed by the times"

Health     8:34am, 5 August 2025

In recent years, prices have been rising, and housing prices have remained high, which has led to the increasing burden on many young people. A female netizen posted an article online, revealing that she thought she could turn things around by reading books, but she realized that it was not as good as it was. She could not even imagine that she would buy a house, marry and have children. She felt that "certain rights of the eighth-year-old child were destroyed by the times."

A few days ago, a female netizen posted a question on Dcard with the question of "The Eighth Year Student". The original PO revealed that she was very good at getting into a university while she was a student. She has also found a good job for new social people, with a monthly salary of about 70,000 yuan.

The original PO mentioned that he had talked about several loves, but he had never thought about getting married. "If you don't consider the actual factors, you really want to marry and have children like your parents, and you feel that life is complete." The original PO believed that he was not a middle-class level with a wealthy father and mother, "it seems to be unqualified to be a parent, afraid that he can't afford to support his children's rich life."

The original PO said that when she was a child, she thought that she could turn over by just studying hard. As a result, she realized that it is not an era when hard work can live a normal life. She felt that "I feel that some of her rights as a person have been ruined by the times. Are eight-year-olds going to come and keep warm?"

In the comments under the post, the original PO supplemented that she was still studying and pursuing loans, and her family did not have their own house, and her work area was in the science and technology industry. In addition, the original PO said that he had no need to marry and have children after seeing that he had started. "I just felt that if I was born 20 years ago, I would definitely be able to afford more things and have more opportunities to choose my own life."

The post attracted a lot of responses. Many netizens said, "I feel the same way. I'd better have this kind of child. I don't want to think too much about others." "I'm in 1982 years, and my annual salary is more than 1 million. I really don't want to get married at the moment. It's hard to just buy a house and a car by myself, let alone have to have a baby." "Eighth grade, I think the earth is not suitable for having a baby now, and having a baby is not in the planning of life at all", "Eighth grade is no longer life, but how to survive."

In addition, some netizens said, "It's enough... Saving a little and paying the term is basically the same as renting a house, and then using the house to borrow money to buy funds or make other investments, it feels very useful", "The 70,000 is already above the average, do you want to listen to what you are saying?", "The salary of 70,000 is so bad that you can just open your eyes to prepare for reincarnation," and "The 70,000 yuan feels like it is bad, so what should you do if it is lower than the average?"

Finally, some netizens analyzed the trends in the future, "I will definitely be more and more aggression. Now, most of the eighth-year-old students have to pay the first payment for their parents to buy a house. Do you think the eighth-year-old students can afford the first period of their children?", "The nine-year-old students may be the last generation in the concept of "raising and protecting the elderly" and being the last generation."