Avoid these 4 major misunderstandings, so that cats no longer resist you, and their intimacy soars

Pet     4:20pm, 19 May 2025

Cats are born with a cold temperament. Although they do not reject human companionship, if they feel that the way they are caught is not suitable for their wishes, they will quickly withdraw. This is either an instinctive evasion reaction or a clear resistance to a specific way of contact, showing their unique preferences and boundaries.

The cat's body is particularly soft, so the shoveler will feel like it is about to fall off when holding the cat, so he naturally increases his strength. But cats also have nerves and bones like humans.

So what mistakes do cat shovelers make when holding cats? Today, Fat Ju will tell you that if you don’t want to be hated by cats, the shovelers must correct it.

Error 1: When cats hate being hugged, cats are "speakable" animals. They will not be forced to pretend to like them at some point, but will show them thoroughly whether they like or not.

For example,

and cats are particularly "little-family-inspired". The shovelers may have done many things that are particularly good to them. They will also get angry with the shovelers because of something that makes them unhappy, and may even gradually lose trust with the shovelers.

Therefore, those poop shovelers who are meeting their cats for the first time should not suddenly hug the cat, but first look at the cat's attitude. If the cat does not refuse you to get close, then you boldly walk over, and then don't rush to hug the cat, but touch it first.

Error 2: Hands pass through the dense armpits and hug the cat's belly

Many cat shovelers like to grab the armpit part of the cat's front legs with both hands and support the cat. The cat's body looks like it has been stretched. This way of handling may put pressure on cats, after all, their stomachs are exposed.

For cats, their belly is where they are fragile, and they don't want to be exposed. Some cats will shake immediately because they are hugged like this, and may even bite people with their mouths.

Of course, I am not saying that this way of handling is not good, but

Error 3: Grab the tail

, and there are many nerves on the cat's tail. If the shoveler damages the cat's tail, it may affect the cat's excretion and diet.

I believe that most poop shovelers will not grab the cat's tail and lift the cat up. Not to mention that it may have adverse effects on the cat, even if the cat's "counterattack" is also very painful.

Anyway, cat shovelers only need to remember that the cat's tail can only be viewed from a distance and not played with it."

Error 4: Hold the cat's neck tightly and lift the cat up

This is not a problem in the eyes of many shovelers. Instead, they feel that grabbing the cat's neck is not only very stable, but also makes the cat be honest immediately. This seems to be fine, but if the shoveler holds it too tightly or for too long, it will make the cat feel difficult to breathe.

and may also hurt the nerves on the cat's neck, so if the cat's neck is not fully understood, it is recommended not to catch the cat like this.

In short, getting along with cats should be meticulous, so as not to lose the big picture due to small things and destroy the trust bridge built through hardships. True feelings can be seen in the subtleties. Only by caring carefully can we maintain this precious "meow fate" and make each other's hearts closer and leave no regrets.